DIVORCE IN MARYLAND WHEN NO ONE WILL WALK OUT THE DOOR

In Maryland you can obtain a divorce on the fault grounds of cruelty, adultery or desertion while living in the same house.

The Ricketts case in 2006 allowed a limited divorce to go forward on grounds of constructive desertion when the parties were living in separate bedrooms in the same house.

The Court of Appeals in 2006 found that a complaint for limited divorce alleging constructive desertion based on lack of marital relations may be maintained when both parties continue to live under the same roof, albeit not in the same bedroom, and without cohabitation. Moreover, in such a circumstance, a complaint for custody and visitation of the parties’ children may also be maintained. Ricketts v. Ricketts, 393 Md. 479 (2006). Opinion by Bell, C.J.

A limited divorce grants unto the injured spouse the right to live separate and apart from the one at fault. However, the parties remain man and wife, and there is no severance of the marital bonds.” This is in contrast to an absolute divorce, which effects a complete severance of the marital bond and entitles either of the parties, or both, to remarry.

The Court stated that by the phrase “live under the same roof,” it meant that the parties are technically living together but are not cohabitating, sharing the same bedroom or engaging in marital relations. “Cohabitation,” describes a relationship of living together “as man and wife,” and connotes the mutual assumption of the duties and obligations associated with marriage. The mutual assumption of those marital rights, duties and obligations which are usually manifested by married people, including but not necessarily dependent on sexual relations.

But there are dangers in this arrangement, which will be the topic of a follow-up blog in the Family Law category.

DIVORCE PROCEDURE IN MARYLAND

The Circuit Courts of Maryland decideissues of divorce, marital property division, alimony, child support, custody and visitation in a divorce proceeding. If a case is decided by a Judge, the Court hears evidence of the specific facts of the case and then decides the relevant issues based upon statutes and precedent cases. However, an experienced family lawyer will exhaust all other possibilities prior to submitting a case for a Judge’s determination. This is primarily accomplished by negotiating a settlement agreement (also known as a Separation Agreement) after the complaint is filed and discovery is completed.

In Maryland, the divorce proceeds generally as follows: Each person hires a lawyer to handle the divorce. Whether a person is negotiating a settlement or presenting a case to the court, he or she needs a knowledgeable, experienced and local family lawyer in order to gain the most benefits that the law has to offer. The divorce lawyer represents one spouse in the traditional attorney-client relationship that may, result in a negotiated settlement, involve litigation or a combination of both. Litigation in court is costly, both financially and emotionally. However, certain family matters can only be resolved through litigation.

In order to litigate or negotiate a successful resolution as an attorney specializing in matrimonial litigation, Constance A. Camus, has extensive knowledge in business valuation and dissolution, pension and retirement benefits, valuation of advanced degrees and licenses, and child support and custody arrangements. Additionally, she is familiar with the different procedures for each and every county in Maryland.

The laws of equitable distribution of marital property in Maryland are complex, dynamic and constantly changing. Each case presents it own set of facts and must be properly prepared and presented. Before agreeing to a property settlement or before asking the court to divide property, it is very important to conduct financial disclosure to determine how and when the specific property and all other assets were acquired. This is done either through an informal or formal discovery process. When discovery is done correctly, it is possible to find assets hidden by the other spouse, evidence of an adulterous affair, etc. Unfortunately, the discovery process can be is very time consuming and costly. The client should always weigh the costs of doing discovery versus the benefit of such extensive discovery. Again, a good divorce lawyer can advise you as to the extent of discovery to use. Ultimately, only the client can decide how much discovery should be done.

Separate property is generally not subject to equitable distribution by the court. An experienced and skillful divorce lawyer will help to guide a client through the maze of the laws and disclosure devices which may affect the client’s financial rights, obligations and the division of property.

Seriously pursuing alternatives to litigation, such as mediation or negotiation, will make the difference between getting a divorce and surviving a divorce. When a child’s best interests are at stake, seeking peaceful co-parenting solutions to custody and visitation disputes will positively affect a child for the rest of his or her life.

March 8, 2009 6:25 AM